Welcome to The Oleander Center, where empowerment, safety, and confidence come together to help individuals take control of their personal security. We are Melissa and Carly, a passionate mother-daughter team committed to providing high-quality self-defense training, firearm education, CPL certification, and mindfulness coaching that empower people to navigate the dangers of the world with confidence.
With years of experience and a deep understanding of the unique safety challenges women and girls face, we are committed to creating a space where education, preparedness, and skills empower you to feel safer and more confident. Our trauma-informed approach ensures that every student—regardless of experience level—feels supported as they gain the practical skills needed to stay safe.
“Our mission is to equip every woman with the knowledge, skills, and confidence to protect herself—physically, emotionally, and mentally.”
From situational awareness and self-defense techniques to firearm training and CPL certification training, our programs are designed to build both competence and confidence. We also recognize that mental preparedness is just as vital as physical ability, which is why meditation and mindfulness are integral to our training—helping students stay calm under pressure, sharpen their awareness, and develop the clarity needed to make empowered decisions in high-stress situations.
At The Oleander Center, we believe that empowerment begins with education and community. Our goal is to provide an inclusive, supportive space where individuals can learn, grow, and take charge of their own safety. Whether you’re here to build self-defense skills, refine your firearm training, or take the next step in obtaining your CPL Certification, we are here to guide you every step of the way.
Are you ready to take control of your safety and confidence? Click below to begin your journey today!
“Empowering women self-defense and mindfulness in an inclusive space. Join us on your journey to strength and serenity.”
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